What is Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction and Can it Aid the Way I Deal with Stress?

“You cannot solve a problem with the same level of mind that created it.” Albert Einstein. 

I think it's true that a short burst of stress or pressure can help us rise to an immediate challenge.  Many thousands of years ago, when our ancestors were Cavemen, and needed to chase down a Wooly Mammoth, this fight-or-flight response was an incredibly useful evolutionary trait to have in our toolbox.  However, that's what the Fight-or-Flight response was designed for...a short burst of Adrenaline and Cortisol that would get us somewhere in a very short space of time.  

However, in today's world this Fight-or-Flight response seems to be turned on all the time, causing us various symptoms, including anger and anxiety, difficulty sleeping, loss of appetite, breathlessness and chest pains. People who are under prolonged stress are at greater risk of health problems like high blood pressure and heart attacks.  It's no coincidence that most heart attacks occur at 9AM on Monday morning!

Something has to be found to stop this, or at least lessen it..! As far as a natural, safe alternative is concerned, Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction does a pretty good job. Mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) offers an integrative approach by utilising techniques such as meditation, gentle yoga and mind-body exercises to help people cope with stress. The mind is known to be a factor in stress and stress-related disorders, and meditation has been shown to positively effect a range of autonomic physiological processes, such as lowering blood pressure and reducing overall arousal and emotional reactivity.  

It is a way of connecting in to the body and becoming present with your current experience, by lying on one's back and focusing one's attention on various regions of the body, starting with the toes and moving up slowly to the top of the head. By taking your focus away from your thoughts, and towards your body, your attention is taken away from the thinking processes which are currently causing you distress.  It simply starts with just coming back to your breath.  This is the fastest, quickest way to become present. 

In Layman's terms, it is simply, "Moment-to-moment, non judgemental awareness [of yourself." Jon Kabat-Zinn.  A way of tuning in..a way of moving from your Headmind to your Bodymind (I explain more about this in another Post!) and just the simple act of observation of what is happening.  It can be extremely peaceful and nourishing.  

Even though I'm at the stage in my health where I don't really need to practice Mindfulness anymore, I still do on a daily basis, because it helps keep me grounded, whilst also keeping things in perspective, and reducing overwhelm which can be triggered by 'over-stress.'  

A Bit too Spiritual For Me?  

MBSR is in fact not Spiritual at all.  Although its roots are grounded in spiritual practice, the program is in fact secular, and should be approached as so. 

'Mindfulness-based approaches have been the subject of increasing research interest: 52 papers were published in 2003, rising to 477 by 2012.[1] Nearly 100 randomized controlled trials had published by early 2014.' Hurley, Dan (January 14, 2014). "Breathing In vs. Spacing Out" . New York Times Magazine. Retrieved April 9, 2014.

For Sufferers of Chronic Pain?

When I was first diagnosed, I was in a lot of physical joint and muscle pain...every single day. It was relentless.  The only thing I found which gave me some relief from my symptoms at the time was doing some Mindfulness-Based Stress Relief, usually for around 20 minutes a day.  I suppose you could say it was my first window to recovery.  It was then that I started exploring nutrition and psychology, which is where the majority of my recovery lay.  Mindfulness or Meditation is not a cure, but it certainly helps soften pain, and acts as a good lubricant to make change a possibility in your life.  

On a final note, for Fibro sufferers..."MBSR might be beneficial for people with fibromyalgia: there is no evidence of long-term benefit but low-quality evidence of a small short-term benefit." Lauche R, Cramer H, Dobos G, Langhorst J, Schmidt S (December 2013). "A systematic review and meta-analysis of mindfulness-based stress reduction for the fibromyalgia syndrome". J Psychosom Res (Systematic review) 75 (6): 500–10

So...could this benefit me?

A good place to start is by assessing your own stress levels and how your managing them.  If you click on the link, you'll be taken to the BeMindful stress test.  

Additionally, if you're a bit of a bookworm, this could be the most useful book you ever buy!  

Mindfulness : Are We Doing it Right?

In just a few decades, Mindfulness Meditation has gone from being a specialist element of Buddhist teaching to the must have app for celebs, and corporate businesses use it to boost productivity and to reduce staff stress levels.  It's even prescribed on the NHS now for health purposes.  So why has this become so popular in such a relatively short space of time?  There's so so much to say about this, of which I will delve into in later posts.  In this edition, I'm simply going to explore how it is being received and used in Western Culture.  Let's explore this...

[I'd like you to just become aware of your breath and allow it to become deeper, counting up to 3 on the inhale, and 3 on the exhale...notice any sensations in your body...feel the support of the ground beneath you...and just give yourself some time to notice the sounds around you...notice the room around you.] 

This is effectively coming into the Present, and this is the essence of Mindfulness Meditation.  It's really about awareness! Being aware of yourself.  It's likely you'll feel more grounded and calm in this moment.  A brief release from the stress of our everyday life.  When was the last time you actually did this?  Do you think you could benefit from doing this more often.  

I know what you're thinking...

1. I'm too busy for this.  What if I miss a deadline?
2. What if I become boring?  What if I become too relaxed?
3. How can I slow down my mind? Even if during these periods of Mindfulness, my mind becomes quieter and I feel more clarity, what about when I'm finished.  My mind speeds up again and I'm back where I started!
4. What if I become obsessed with it, give up all my belongings, and move to Thailand to become a Buddhist monk? (YES I'VE REALLY BEEN ASKED THIS!)

These are all really valid questions!  When I first started learning about Mindfulness, these were questions I was constantly asking myself.  I had this constant battle (known in Psychology as 'Mental Tennis') in my mind about how this could work for me.  My mind ran so fast, how could I slow it down safely without losing something important?

However, in my scenario, with the condition I was going through, Mindfulness Meditation was the only thing that could lessen my symptoms initially. I'm still not sure exactly how...but studies have shown that it calms down the nervous system and the stress response, and as a result, it probably released the anxiety and fear I was feeling about my relentless symptoms that had become my world 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  

The most important thing I learnt was to not be scared of what was happening in my body, and that it was an ally in healing, not an enemy!  On hearing the body's messages,  it was simply trying to give me useful feedback i.e. you've overdone it today, you need to rest and take it easy this afternoon.

Anyway, I digress! Let me come back to the 4 questions above, in particular Q3.  This seems to be the most common problem associated with Mindfulness Meditation.  This seems to be the way it is taught in many large Corporate Businesses like Google, Starcom MediaVest (I know this one from experience!), and the big City banks.  They use the format of getting employees to sit down on a mat for 20 minutes at lunchtime once a week, focus on their breath, observe their thoughts, and just become aware of themselves in the room. Great!!

HOWEVER! This doesn't really address the core issue here...these employees are still being burdened with ever increasing workloads that are often beyond their capabilities, and are being subjected to 12-14 hour days.  If we're being honest, the old 9-5 working day paradigm simply doesn't exist anymore!  Therefore, what I'm advocating here, is not just being Mindful for those 20 minute sessions here and there, but being more mindful in life in general on a daily basis.  This is the REAL essence of Mindfulness 

This doesn't mean you need to sit and meditate all day every day.  By all means, have a daily connection practice of meditation for 10-20 minutes per day (perhaps just closing your eyes on the train to work), but how about going through your day simply....

• being mindful of what is happening in your environment
• being mindful of your thoughts but not attaching yourself to them
• being mindful of your reactions or emotions around other people (you're likely to notice different emotional feedback from different people)
• being mindful of your breath, your body, and its stillness (this is the best and easiest way to become Present)

That's all it takes! It's not easy at first, and takes practice, but it's likely that you'll find you have more energy freed up in your body, more clarity, and more detachment from intense situations.  The best thing is that anyone can learn this, it's the act of simply tuning into your body and your breathing.  At it's very core, it's an extremely calming, relieving, and satisfying feeling to experience!

Below is a short Mindfulness taster, led by Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, is Professor of Medicine Emeritus and creator of the Stress Reduction Clinic and the Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care, and Society at the University of Massachusetts Medical School.  It's quite amazing how simple, yet powerful this modality is!

An additional resource for us secular folk is by P Mark Williams, Professor of Psychiatry at Oxford University. Click here

Mindfulness isn't for everyone, and it certainly takes discipline, but I suppose the question to ask is : what have you got to lose?

Now breath deeply and relax my friends, because this particular journey through Mindfulness has come to an end :-)

'If we as a society are willing to have a preference for organic food, the farmer can pass on the savings.'

Before my health nose-dived at the end of 2009, I don't think I'd ever had organic food.  In fact, food as a whole didn't interest me in the slightest. It was simply a means to keep me going through my day.  Sometimes I didn't even bother with breakfast, or lunch..I just didn't believe there was enough time in the day for it.  My shopping list was this : microwaveable Iceland meals, rigorously sticking to my self-imposed £15 budget. Alcohol and nights out at Uni came first for me at that time. Toad in the Hole was a favourite of mine:

Little did I know how much my physical and mental performance was being hindered.  I suppose I learnt the hard way. I was grumpy and on edge in the mornings, and I'd get very sleepy around late afternoon.  My blood sugar was often low, meaning I'd usually go for the coca cola pick-me-up, or even a Red Bull.  I'd get a quick buzz, and then it would be back to feeling somewhat tired again and unfocused.  

It was only once I got diagnosed and referred to a Nutritionist who specialised in my condition, that I realised, firstly, how important a good balanced diet is in the function of a healthy human being (it's basically more important than everything except oxygen and water!), and secondly, the importance of keeping to as many clean fruits and vegetables as possible whilst in recovery.  Fast food went out of the window, and along with that, alcohol (most of the time!)  In through the window came good quality fruit, veg, and meat (as much organic as I could find!)  

Of course, the importance of diet is magnified when going through ME/CFS. To get better can often mean cutting out anything that could be a burden on your body i.e. gluten, wheat, sugar, dairy etc.  It's really tough, but it encourages you to get creative, make your stuff from scratch, and be as clean as possible with your food.  

It's not always possible to get organic, but if you prioritise what would be really helpful to your body in organic form, and what may not, it makes things much easier.  In today's mass consumer society, all our meat is pumped full of anti-biotics to stop them from getting sick. Remember, what goes into them, goes into you once you consume it. And people wonder why we're becoming immune to anti-biotics! The food the livestock consume is also low grade and usually full of pesticides. Again this goes into use and makes our bodies weaker as a result. As a rule of thumb, therefore, I go as organic as I possibly can with meat.  Vegetables aren't quite as important, as you can wash off the pesticides with water, a veggie brush, or veggie soap : http://bit.ly/1uxlLK5

Despite this, there are certain vegetables which are intensely sprayed with pesticides throughout the growth process, and are worth getting organic if possible.  They're known as the Dirty Dozen (diagram below). The Clean Fifteen signify those lowest in pesticide content. 

So...where to buy?

• OCADO - the best range of organic produce I'm aware of AND cheaper than Tesco!
• TESCO/SAINSBURY'S - both have a good quality organic fruit & vegetable range.
• ASDA - lower quality organic, but still organic and cheaper than most other supermarkets.
• WAITROSE - great selection but burns a hole in your wallet!
• PLANET ORGANIC - (if based in London) this is a great chain of purely organic supermarkets across London. Click here for details
• WHOLEFOODS - organic fruit, veg and snack market. Click here to see if there's one near you
• ABEL & COLE - explained in my Vlog below.... All organic fruit, veg, and great quality meat, at a fairly reasonable cost all delivered to your door. You even get a free fruit and veg box with every 4th order Click here for their website

Nutribullet - worth its weight in gold?

'What on earth is a Nutribullet?' That was the first question that came into my head when this fairly recent contraption was mentioned and recommended to me by a friend. The name itself makes it sound like it contains a round of live ammo.  


After being told about it, I checked out the adverts on Youtube, and to be honest, they were all really Americanised with quotes like, "You got all that from one orange???" and so on... Furthermore, the way it did what it did seemed too good to be true, and perhaps even staged. Oh wait, I haven't explained what this Nutribullet gadget is yet. Here goes....

'The NutriBullet is effectively a very powerful blender. It completely breaks down your food, liquefying and mixing together all the essential nutrition. It literally pulverises fruit, vegetables, nuts and seeds, giving you all the nutrition.'

Sounds cool huh? But wait, there's a catch...most retailers price this product at £99.99, which let's be honest, is expensive for a blender.  However, given that Christmas was round the corner at the time of me discovering this, and the fact my juicer was on it's last legs/dead, I put it on the Christmas/Birthday wish-list. That's what I like about Christmas..if you don't like it, at least you didn't lose money over it, and if you can get your mitts on the receipt, you can swap it for something else! Anyway, I digress..

Once I got it home, I wasn't really sure how I'd fit what I'd normally juice into this fairly small blender on steroids.  So instead I just used about half the amount of fruit and veg I'd normally use (recipes at the bottom of this page).  

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I must say I was really impressed by the flavour and texture. It's a fair amount denser than a juice, but it has the huge advantage of keeping all the nutritional value, along with loads of fibre, which you don't get with a juice.  There was also a noticeable change in my energy levels and strength, which was a wee added bonus.  In addition to this, it's much easier to clean than any smoothie maker or juicer I've ever come across. Takes about 30 seconds. Simples...

There's no doubt it's the best blender out there, but as I mentioned earlier, it comes at a price!  On the flip side, it's cheaper than buying your smoothies and juices retail.  If this is something that interests you, feel free to comment in the box below. I'm always on the lookout for a good deal, so if one comes up for a Nutribullet, I'll post it up on my Facebook page (http://www.facebook.com/adam.lomax.73)

Below I've listed a few tasty recipes you can try with Nutribullet, but which can easily be used in any juicer/blender/smoothie maker : 

Spiced Oatmeal Blast

Ingredients  :
1 Handful Kale
1 Ripe Banana
½ Cup Oats
½ Apples
1 Tablespoon Coconut Oil
2 Dates
1 Teaspoon Maca
½ Teaspoon Ceylon Cinnamon
¼ Teaspoon Nutmeg
To Max Line Almond Milk

Directions
Add all ingredients to your Tall Cup and extract for 30 seconds, or until smooth.

Orange Beet Blast

Ingredients :
1 Handful Kale
½ Beet
4 Chunks Pineapple
½ Orange
1 Teaspoon Coconut Oil
To Max Line Coconut Water

Directions
Add all solid ingredients into tall cup
Fill to MAX line with water/Coconut Water
Blend until smooth, approximately 30 seconds


Power Gulp

Ingredients : 
1 Handful Kale

1 Handful Green Grapes

1 Cucumber

1 Green Apple

Directions
Add all solid ingredients into tall cup
Fill to MAX line with water/Coconut Water
Blend until smooth, approximately 30 seconds



NOTE 1 : If you're interested in buying a Nutribullet, the best thing is to buy from source. In that way you know you're getting guaranteed quality and are likely to get some form of warranty for free. Here's the site : http://bit.ly/1xMm0LN

NOTE 2 : Give organic a chance, it really does make a difference, and it usually tastes better too.

Magnesium - the miracle mineral.

Magnesium is probably the most over-looked mineral of all, and perhaps the most important.  It's incredible that 80% of Americans are deficient in this (I couldn't get British figures unfortunately, but I suspect they are similar...)  Given how vital Magnesium is to our everyday function, the fact that around 80% of the population are deficient in it is indicative of the health crisis we are currently facing today in Western society.  After being constantly exposed to dangerous pesticides in our vegetables, anti-biotics which our meat is pumped full of to avoid infection, and the chronic stress we experience in our lives, this is perhaps no wonder... It also offers a partial explanation as to why we're becoming immune to anti-biotics.

Early signs of magnesium deficiency include loss of appetite, headache, nausea, fatigue, and weakness. An ongoing magnesium deficiency can lead to more serious symptoms, including:

Numbness and tingling	Muscle contractions and cramps	Seizures
Personality changes	Abnormal heart rhythms	Coronary spasms

In her book, The Magnesium Miracle, (a very easy-to-read book for the lay man) Dr. Dean lists 100 factors that will help you decide whether or not you might be deficient.

I had to have blood tests taken about a year ago at the clinic where I'm being treated for health reasons.  I was stunned to find how deficient in Magnesium I was....no wonder I had no energy! (At this point walking to the end of my road could be a struggle at times.)  In hindsight however, looking over the years I had abused my body with a very poor diet and high levels of stress (along with a potential genetic predisposition) this was perhaps no surprise.

Conditions linked to Magnesium deficiency include (but are not limited to) to following: 

Pain:
Headaches
Muscles Spasms/Cramps
Fibromyalgia
M.E./CFS

Mental Health & Sleep:
Anxiety
Depression
Autism and ADD
Restless Leg Syndrome (RLS)
Insomnia
Tics

Other Conditions:
Psoriasis, Acne, & Eczema
Asthma
Blood Pressure
Diabetes
Osteoporosis

Below I'm going to list a series of reasons why magnesium is so crucial for good health.

Magnesium:

• Creating energy in your body by activating adenosine triphosphate (ATP)
• Is an important factor in muscle relaxation and heart health
• Allows nerves to send messages in the brain and nervous system
• Aids and regulates the body’s use of calcium and other minerals
• Assists in bone and teeth formation
• Regulates the metabolism of nutrients such as protein, nucleic acids, fats and carbohydrates
• Regulates cholesterol production and helps modulate insulin sensitivity
• Assists in energy production, DNA transcription and protein synthesis
• Maintains the structural health of cell membranes throughout the body

You can see here just how important this mineral is for our bodies, and how critical it is to our on-going health.  I didn't even know what magnesium was until 18 months ago..if I'd only have known what it was and it's importance sooner, I may have taken earlier action!

Magnesium is available in a wide variety of foods.  The following contain a high source of Magnesium :

Fish like mackerel, wild salmon, halibut, and tuna will add more magnesium to your menu

Avocado
Bananas
Chard (a green leafy vegetable - goes great in smoothies)
Nuts & Seeds - particularly pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, cashews, and almonds
Dark Chocolate

You can also get Magnesium by supplementation - this is the one I use : 

What else can I try...? 

Epsom Salts Baths are a bit old fashioned, but it's an easy way of getting a Magnesium boost.  It will aid muscle relaxation and a general sense of calm. Try here if interested : http://bit.ly/1xX0AAv

Thanks for Reading, 


Adam

Kale - The Ultimate Superfood!

The word 'superfoods' is being used a bit too liberally today (I once found it as an optional topping at an ice cream stand..) However, if there were just one Superfood, it would have to be Kale, hands down! Pound for pound, Kale is the undisputed champion when it comes to nutritional value, and is a perfect place to start for those looking to incorporate a healthy diet into their lifestyle, or to simply improve their health further.     

I first started having kale in a daily juice (recipes below) and noticed an immediate improvement in my condition.  I just felt a bit stronger, and had a bit more of a spring in my step in the morning. As an additional side effect, it seemed to help clear up my acne! Amazingly, I found I got even more out of it when I started blending it with other fruits and veg!

Buzzing with vitamin A, C, and K, it is also plentiful in manganese, copper and phytochemicals, which are believed to help against certain types of cancer.  Because it's so packed full of all these nutrients, if you're consuming this on a daily basis (or even 3-4 times a week), you're getting a large amount of your nutritional needs from this single green.  I like to think of it as nature's multi-vitamin.  Below are some facts about this powerhouse superfood : 

Why eat Kale?

• 1 portion (80g) of cooked kale contains 120mg of calcium, which makes it a useful source of this important mineral, especially for vegans and people on dairy free diets
• Kale is an excellent source of folate with 69µg in every 80g of cooked curly kale. Folate is the form of folic acid occurring naturally in food. Folic acid is a B vitamin and is important because it: supports the growth of a mother’s tissues during pregnancy; plays a role in normal formation of blood, and supports the immune system to function normally
• Kale is rich in lutein – an anti-oxidant which helps keep the eyes healthy. Kale contains 76mg lutein per kg, compared to broccoli which has 17mg. Experts recommend we should eat 6-10mg of lutein each day
• A portion (80g) of cooked kale contains 448µg Vitamin A which plays a supporting role in maintaining normal skin and vision, and helps the immune system to function normally
• Gram for gram kale contains 17 times more vitamin C than carrots. A portion (80g) of cooked kale contains 57mg of vitamin C which is important because it plays a role in the formation of collagen for blood vessels, bone, cartilage, gums, skin and teeth; supports the immune system to work normally; increases iron absorption and plays a role in protecting the cells from oxidative damage
• Raw kale is an excellent source of vitamin K containing 704.8µg per 100g.Vitamin K plays a role in normal blood clotting and plays a role in maintaining normal bones
• Kale is virtually fat free and low in calories.
• IT GROWS THROUGHOUT WINTER, meaning you can get started on it as soon as you like (this post was written in January for anyone reading this in Summer.) It's also available in the supermarkets in Summer
• Kale has a definite role to play in support of the body's detoxification processes. The isothiocyanates (ITCs) made from kale's glucosinolates have been shown to help regulate detox activities in our cells.
• Kale is a incredible source of vitamin K (one cup of kale provides far more micrograms of vitamin K than any of our world's healthiest foods) and we also know that vitamin K is a key nutrient for helping regulate our body's inflammatory process.

One word of warning

Aim to always buy organic with Kale.  I say this because farmers can often lace Kale with pesticides to keep bugs off of the produce.  The last thing you want is to increase the toxicity load in your body!  Give this helpful link a quick browse - it identifies the 12 most sprayed fruit and vegetables : http://bit.ly/1d0UaTJ

But..would Kale taste a bit bland on its own..?

Yes, but fear not, I've listed some recipes for incorporating Kale into everyday dishes (remember, you can put it in literally anything!) : 

RECIPES : 

Prawn & Kale Stir Fry 

Serves 4

Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time: 15 minutes

Ingredients:

• 500g pack kale
• 3 nests egg noodles (200g)
• 1 tbsp toasted sesame oil
• 1 onion, sliced (200g)
• 2 carrots, cut into matchsticks (200g)
• 3cm piece fresh ginger, grated
• 400g frozen cooked tiger prawns, defrosted
• 2 tbsp light soy sauce
• 75g plum sauce
• 1 tbsp chilli sauce

Method

Cook the kale in boiling water for 8 minutes, adding the noodles half way through, drain.

Meanwhile, heat the oil in a large frying pan or wok and stir fry the onion, carrot and ginger for 4-5 minutes. Add the prawns, kale and noodles.

Stir in the soy, plum and chilli sauces and stir fry for 2-3 minutes.

Lentil & Kale Soup 

Serves 4

Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time: 25 minutes

Ingredients:

• 150g Puy lentils
• 2 x 200g packs kale
• 1.5 litres vegetable stock
• 195g can sweetcorn, drained
• 4 sprigs thyme
• 400g can chopped tomatoes

Method:

Cook the lentils in boiling water for 15 minutes, drain and return to the pan, add the kale, stock and the remaining ingredients. Simmer covered for 8 minutes then season to taste before serving.

PINEAPPLE, KALE, & APPLE DETOX SMOOTHIE 

Serves 1

Prep time: 5 minutes

Ingredients:

• ¼ fresh medium pineapple, cored and diced
• ½ red apple, cored and diced
• 50g kale
• 1 tsp fresh ginger, grated
• 200ml probiotic pouring yogurt

Method:

Place all the ingredients in a blender or food processor and blitz until smooth. Pour into a tall glass.

P.S. If you want more information on Kale, this is a great site : http://www.eattheseasons.co.uk/Articles/kale.php

P.P.S. If you have time, here's a great video on Kale and how to use it : 

Any questions or comments, feel free to leave in the box below. I love post : )

Thanks for reading,

Adam

What's All This Tapping About?

Wow, it's been over a year since my last post, so I thought I'd rev up the blog engine again! However, this time it will carry a more personal tone, exploring things that have helped me on 'My Journey' over the last 5 years of sub-normal health, the challenges I've faced, and the lessons I've learnt.

As those of you close to me know, I've been suffering from ME/CFS (Myalgic Encephalomyelitis) since I contracted Glandular Fever late in 2009. The first 4 years were pretty hell-ish to be honest, with no noticeable improvement. To be fair, up until this point I refused to accept the illness and I was living in a constant state of stress about my symptoms, which ranged from extreme brain-fog and light sensitivity to sore, painful muscles and constant flu-like symptoms. If anything this simply perpetuated the illness. I had no idea what was happening to me and why it was happening...it was a scary place.  At points I have to be honest, I could get extremely depressed and was having thoughts about ending my situation. Anyone who has been through this condition will know what I mean.

Fortunately after almost 4 years, I came across the Optimum Health Clinic, based in London, who specialise in treating ME, and take an integrative, holistic approach (I had discovered that Western Medicine was pretty useless at treating this condition by this point!) I'm also seeing a Physiotherapist who specialises in the condition to help me build up my exercise and daily activities.

A year and 4 months later (now!) I'm exercising (walking) 5-6 days a week, I'm doing some work 5-6 days a week, studying for my NLP, Hypnotherapy, Life Coaching, & EFT qualifications, and I'm doing some volunteering for the clinic. I'm not fully recovered, and there's still a fair bit of work to do to get me there, but I'm feeling generally quite positive.

Ok that's that little bit done..now to explain the title of this blog post!

Tapping (otherwise known as EFT) is a form of counselling intervention that draws on various theories of alternative medicine including acupuncture, neuro-linguistic programming, energy medicine, and Thought Field Therapy (TFT).


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Skeptical? Sound a bit confusing? That's how I approached it initially...how can tapping on certain parts of your body whilst saying certain phrases release this anxiety I've been feeling for years?

It's certainly encouraged me to be more open-minded when trying new things or modalities. It's quite hard to explain how this works without showing you a video demo, so click below to identify how and where to tap :

I know it looks a little weird, but I dare you to give it a go and see if you notice any changes.  

This is a relatively new form of therapy which is pretty exciting.  The great thing about EFT is that you can use it on virtually anything - from fear, to stress, it's very flexible. It can even get results with pain. What I really like about this modality is that you can use it on yourself, whenever you need - you don't need someone there to guide you or walk you through the steps.  

The most useful resource I found on this is a book by Nick Ortner called The Tapping Solution. I got through this in 2 days..it was too good to put down.  There's also a film Nick Ortner made of the same name, which follows 10 individuals with various ailments (some severe) being taught EFT. Some of the results are simply astounding. I'll leave it up to you to find out what they were!

I've added in a tapping session here about anxiety, which you can have a go with if you wish : 

If you've got this far, thanks for reading, and if you have any comments, feel free to leave in the box below :-)

Adam

Research that now proves Optimism can be created through 20 minutes of Mindfulness per day!

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“Be happy in the moment, that's enough. 
Each moment is all we need, not more.” 

Mother Teresa



A very short post today, but I just found some incredible research on how even just 20 minutes of Mindfulness per day can make you significantly more optimistic. It also offers some great instructions on how a great Mindfulness exercise. 

I'll let the article itself do all the talking today...!

Article can be found here!

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Rapport

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Have you ever felt 'out of sync' with the individual you're talking to? Have you ever ended a conversation with someone thinking "We're just not on the same wavelength!" Don't worry, it happens to all of us. However, we can change this by building rapport with literally anyone. This is one of the cornerstones of NLP. 

Rapport is one of the most important features or characteristics of unconscious human interaction.

It can be described as a state of mutual trust and responsiveness between individuals or groups of people. Building rapport is so fundamental in life, that it can be the difference between brokering a big business deal or getting nothing at all. By establishing good rapport at the outset we can gain commitment from the other party, conscious or unconscious, to trust the process even when they do not fully understand how the process works and what the ultimate outcome will be. 

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The most important thing to remember here is that people like people who are like themselves. 
Think about people you truly get on with, who you have rapport with and you really like. Then think about their mannerisms, tonality, behaviours - similar to yours, no?

In NLP, here's a few indicators of rapport building :

• Matching someone's posture (Are they sitting, standing, kneeling, slouching?)

• Matching their tonality

• Matching their breathing (this is a good one for if you want to be more subtle and not spook out the person you're communicating with!)

• Using some of the key words they have been using

Try some of these out, and see if you feel more in rapport with individuals you may have previously found difficult to get on with.

The Essential Presuppositions of Neuro-Linguistic Programming

If you're interested in NLP and the study of excellence, you're in the right place.  However, it's  important if you want to gain  more excellence in your life, socially and at work, that you adopt the following presuppositions of NLP.  Remember, these were built over years of analysing and studying those who excelled best in their field.  Try consciously adopting some of these today, and notice the subtle changes :

1) Choice is better than no choice.

Having options can provide more opportunities for achieving results.
We are always communicating.2) The meaning of your communication is the response you get.

Even when we remain silent, we are communicating. Non-verbal communication makes up for 55% of our message (Mehrabian and Ferris : "Interference of Attitudes from Non-Verbal Communication in Two Channels," The Journal of Counselling Psychology, Vol. 31, 1967, pp.248 - 52)


3) Respect for Other People's Map of the WorldWe are all unique and experience the world in different ways. Everyone is individual and has their own special way of being.


4) Flexibility is the key to success.

The person with the most flexibility will control the system

5) There is no failure, only feedback.

What seemed like failure can be thought of as success that just stopped too soon. Use feedback as an opportunity to improve your performance. Just look at Michael Jordan, the greatest NBA player of all time.

6) Behind every behaviour there is a positive intention.

When we understand that other people have some positive intention in what they say and do (however annoying it may seem to us), it can be easier to stop getting angrier and start to move forward.

7) Mind and body form a linked system.

Your mental attitude affects your emotions, your body and your health and, in turn,your behaviours

8) There are no resistant clients, only inflexible communicators.

Resistance is a sign of lack of rapport.

9) Anything can be accomplished if the task is broken down into small enough steps.

Achievement becomes easier if activities are manageable

10) People have all the ability they need.

There are no unresourceful people, only unresourceful states of mind.


Have a great weekend folks!


Adam

The low-down on Neuro-Linguistic Programming

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"Whether or not you think you can 

  or you can't...you're probably right" 

  Henry Ford

I've been really really excited about writing this post, as NLP is an approach to psychotherapy, personal development, and communication which absolutely fascinates me, and after reading this it may fascinate you more!

So, what is "Neuro-Linguistic Programming"?

NLP, or Neuro-Linguistic Programming, is the art and science of excellence, derived from studying how top people in different fields obtain their outstanding results. These communication skills can be learned by anyone to improve their effectiveness both personally and professionally. It is directly applicable to a diverse spectrum of fields such as communications, business, sales, education and therapy

Beginnings of NeuroLinguistic Programming
NLP began in the early 70's as a thesis project in California. Richard Bandler and his professor, John Grinder, wanted to develop models of human behavior to understand why certain people seemed to be excellent at what they did, while others found the same tasks challenging or nearly impossible to do.

Inspired by pioneers in fields of therapy, personal growth and development, Bandler and Grinder began to develop systematic procedures and theories that formed the basis of NLP. They studied three top therapists: Virginia Satir, the extraordinary family therapist, the innovative psychotherapist Fritz Perls, and Milton Erickson, the world-famous hypnotherapist.

Their goal was to develop models of how it was that these people got the results they did. They sought to identify and model the patterns that produced these results. These three gifted therapists were quite different personalities, yet Grinder and Bandler discovered some underlying patterns that were quite similar. These patterns became the underlying structure of NLP, with names like: meta-model, submodalities, reframing, language patterns, well formedness conditions and eye accessing clues.

The phrase "Neuro-Linguistic Programming" describes the process of how personality creates and expresses itself. Put simply, we are all made up of a neurology that conveys information about our environment to our central neurvous systems and brains. Since we are also meaning creating creatures, we translate theseperceptions in our brains into meanings, beliefs and expectations. As we continue to grow from a rather "critter brain" baby into a more complex adult human, we tend to filter,distort and magnify the input we get from our environment such that it matches the elaborate program we evolve to explain our life experience.

NLP in other Therapies

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Today, NLP has grown in a myriad of directions - hypnosis and behavioral personal change work, structures of beliefs, modeling personal success and systems of excelence and expertise, business coaching and sales training.  In fact, in my last job in advertising at Starcom MediaVest Group, the company ran a 4-day NLP course which offered managers and directors useful tools to improve their communication, confidence, and management skills. Some have taken it in spiritual directions, assisting in alignment of personal behaviours and beliefs with a "higher purpose" and connection to the Divine. 

It is rapidly growing in the field of personal health (the area I want to go into!) with its strong foundation in how the mind influences behaviours and feelings in the body.   Public speaking, stage fright, parenting skills, allergies, phobias, trauma...the list of areas where training in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and individual therapeutic work with NLP practitioners is endless.

In the next few posts I'll be walking through some tools common in NLP to improve performance at work and in your own personal health and wellbeing.  

If you're interested in using NLP in a practical sense, this is a great place to start 

Until next time...